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Second day on trains for the week

March 31, 2024 by Susanne Leave a Comment

Woke up, packed everything up, had breakfast, then waited until it was time to leave for the train station.

a picture of me with my old, ratty jacket, a backpack and a purse

The first train was pretty empty and only a little late. I got off, bought a guitar magazine for my husband and some chocolate (didn’t get any more salt licorice chocolate, sad face). I went to our favorite noodle place again and was very excited to sit next to four people who actually spoke Mandarin Chinese! And I even understood a sentence or two. My Chinese is still pretty rudimentary, though. I’m at the „ooh, someone mentioned a word I know“ and „people actually ask ‚really?‘ the way I learned“! Anyway, very exciting.

And when we were all finished with out food at about the same time one of them went and put a tuba in its case on his back.

Oh, and delicious food:

a bowl of Asian fried noodles with lots of veggies, salad and tofu with a bottle of water

I had already seen before that my train was twenty minutes late but when I arrived at the platform it turned out it also had changed platforms. For some unknown reason I never get decent wifi at train stations and so the excellent train app can’t really tell me where to go or how long it will take.

But I did figure out where to be when and how to find my reserved seat. Oh, and speaking of reserved seats, the conductor on the first train that day told me off for sitting in the wrong car. I almost said I was sorry and only afterwards did I remember that I had two reservations for that train because the connecting train was canceled and so I made new reservations for the whole trip and ended up reserving two seats on that same train. Which reminds me that I need to fill out the form to get the money for one reservation back.

The 5-hour trip on that train felt even longer. I finished watching „American Fiction“, tried finishing the Karelia mittens for my husband but must have made a mistake somewhere along the way and didn’t feel up to figuring it out.

When I arrived at Munich I was happy to see that the train was on time again which is quite the feat after starting out with a 40-minute delay. I rushed through the station to get to the next train but that one was late again and the platform was so crowded that I had a hard time getting to the other end. So I decided to take the next train in the right direction and wait a few stations further along which turned out to be a good idea.

When I arrived home it was already dark outside. My husband was waiting at the door. I unpacked right away and then sat down to eat and talk with my husband:

a plate of rice, black beans and chicken with a beer stein

I was extremely happy to be back home.

I had plans to watch something and crochet but then the boy came downstairs and we talked instead.

I did remember to thaw the Hefezopf so yeah Easter breakfast!

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Celebrating an 85th birthday

March 30, 2024 by Susanne Leave a Comment

I slept in until 8 which was a good thing since I had stayed up too late.

We had a lazy and slow morning, talking a lot, then I took a shower and helped my mother make lunch. We were a bit confused because the mashed potatoes tasted a bit bland and watery but in the end it turned out my mother had grabbed the expired oat milk from the fridge instead of the cow milk she had bought specifically for this meal and for a pudding she didn‘t get around making. Oops.

It was still good but could have been better. And while the milk had been expired for three months it still tasted fine:

A plate with some breaded fish fillet, mashed potatoes and a green salad with a glass of water

I then ironed the t-shirt I had brought that looked rather crumpled and a little sad and put on makeup for the second time in two days. I really think I need a new look, I stopped wearing makeup in 2020 or so and now when I put on the colors and products I really liked 20 years ago they do look a bit dated. Funny that. (And later in the afternoon when I looked at my cousins I found that their makeup was similar to mine and realized again that fashion has changed and I might want to change with it, just a bit.)

Then we went to my aunt‘s place. She lives in assisted living and this was the first time I went to her place. She has a rather nice apartment that was already full to the brim with relatives. There was her, another sister of my mother, both of birthday aunts daughters with on husband and two of her grandchildren, plus a geriatric pug.

There were four cakes and champagne and we ate and drank a lot. It was all rather nice but a bit loud, especially since I got to sit next to the aunt that is hard of hearing despite her hearing aids. I did knit for an hour or so on the travel hat I brought.

We stayed until evening when I walked back to my mother‘s place, ate dinner, started to write this post, did Duolingo, started packing and went to bed. This was the view on my way back:

Evening view all in blue with dramatic clouds, old buildings and a castle in silhouette

Today will be another day where I‘ll go from train to train to train until I hopefully arrive back home tonight.

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Chinese food, banking and licorice

March 29, 2024 by Susanne Leave a Comment

I finally got enough sleep and I also slept well, partly because I finally was warm enough. Travel always shows me how much I rely on extra thick fleece jackets and crochet blankets at home.

I did yoga, ate breakfast with my mother and had a somewhat leisurely morning. For lunch we went to a Chinese restaurant two towns over. They have an excellent all-you-can eat buffet. I did try figuring out what their Chinese name says but failed:

So far I’m at a stage where I read those Chinese characters as “something, duo, no idea, not sure, I think I should know this”. Not very helpful.

We ate quite a bit of fried food, I also had soup and a variety of desserts:

Sorry, no alt text today, getting the images in was hard enough.

After that we went to the bank and now my mother finally has online banking. We also got investment recommendations, something I always find really hard to judge. Afterwards we went back home and I took a walk under the pretext of wanting to go to the grocery store. One kohlrabi, a chocolate bunny and an assortment of licorice later I went back to my mother’s place. On the way I got a “10 minutes until your Zoom call”-alarm and I spontaneously decided to attend an online meeting about tropes in writing from my mother’s living room. It was super interesting and a rather nice change from dealing with computers, insurance, banking and such.

Afterwards my mother practiced using the banking app and the computer again, we ate dinner, I started writing this post, did Duolingo, watched some C-drama while eating licorice and went to bed.

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A day spent mostly talking

March 28, 2024 by Susanne Leave a Comment

I woke up around 7.30, I hadn’t set an alarm. Trying to get the blog post to actually post had made me late for bed again.

I lounged in bed, unwilling to get up. I briefly considered doing the morning routine but didn’t really feel like it.

My mother was up the same time as me, we ate breakfast and talked and made plans for the next few days and talked some more. I did help her with some banking stuff and with switching a DVDs audio to German. I took a shower.

I had been feeling low-key too cold all night so the shower felt great. We had fried potatoes, fried eggs and salad for lunch. I did some more tech support and finished the first Kaerlig mitten. There was cake. By the time we were ready to get to the computer so my mother could learn how to order something from Amazon my aunt showed up and we talked some more.

While my aunt had some coffee I found that I finally can do the tubular cast-on almost without looking at the instructions. By the time my aunt was ready to leave I had set up the ribbing for the second mitten. Yeah! My mother also found me a crochet hook that I can use later for the provisional cast-on.

My mother still has a hard time with the laptop, she tried opening her e-mail program to get to Amazon which did not really work. I helped her set up an account and order two things. I really hope she will be able to remember when she needs to later.

Then there was dinner, more talking, I started writing this post, did Duolingo, watched C-drama and went to bed.

I might have accidentally eaten most of the huge salt licorice chocolate that I had planned to give the boy when I return. It is delicious but I definitely ate too much. I guess I need to buy some more on my return journey and actually give it to the boy.

My aunt chided us for not doing anything special. I mean, helping my mother understand and operate her electronic devices is laudable but she felt we should do some fun things as well.
We were a bit undecided but in the end agreed to – go out for lunch today.

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A day on trains

March 27, 2024 by Susanne Leave a Comment

At least I went to bed a little earlier than the days before. Still too late, though.

I got up, did yoga, tried writing morning pages and gave up almost immediately. My brain was too scattered. I ate breakfast, crocheted a bit and talked with my husband but all of it quicker than usual because I had a train to catch.

I definitely had more luggage than I find comfortable, the big backpack was weighing 10 kilos (22 pounds).

The first train was a couple of minutes late but that didn’t bother me because I always leave plenty of time when changing trains. I did feel much relieved once I sat in the high speed train to Hannover, though.

The train was pretty empty which was nice. I had downloaded two movies and a couple of YouTube videos for the first time and it turns out, watching movies makes the time go by faster. It was my first time watching “Legally Blonde” and I really enjoyed it. I also knitted for long enough that my hands started to hurt and read a big chunk of “The Kingdoms”. I am enjoying the novel but not as much as “The Watchmaker of Filigree Street”. At least so far.

I didn’t take a picture of my lunch because I ate a sandwich and some roasted nuts on the train. I ate some more in the afternoon in Hannover, yummy noodles.

(At this point please imagine a picture of my left hand holding a box of mouthwatering fried noddles with veggies. I couldn’t figure out how to post a picture, there is some weird stuff going that I couldn’t figure out.)

The next train was 15 minutes late but also much emptier than usual. In the end I arrived 20 minutes late. Not good but not too bad either.

My mother and I ate dinner and talked a bit but by then I was so exhausted that I couldn’t people anymore.

I was too exhausted to figure out how to watch C-drama on the TV in the guest room, I just sat in bed with my tablet. I did a short Duolingo lesson to not break my streak and went to bed.

Today should be a somewhat slow day which suits me fine.

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Packing and getting ready

March 26, 2024 by Susanne Leave a Comment

For only sleeping 6 1/2 hours I felt pretty good.

I did most of my morning routine but skipped morning pages because I fell into a conversation with my son. Yoga was very nice. I had breakfast, finished the last stripe on the crochet blanket and started the first border round, volunteered to buy salad (and chocolate), tried writing morning pages but somehow never got around to it, walked to the health food store and back and sat down to eat the rest of the lasagna:

a plate of lasagna, a bowl of mixed salad and a glas of water

The Duo owl was not happy that I skipped my morning lesson:

a screeshot of the Duolingo owl lying on its back with tears in its eyes in front of a purple background with the streak symbol next to the number 1294 and the words Practice now?

I always skip the morning lesson on Monday because that puts you in a less competitive part of the league you’re currently in. If you start Monday bright and early you get to compete against all the other highly motivated learners.

The I had plans to do all the things in the afternoon but first the boy showed up again and we talked and showed each other stuff on Twitter while he ate lunch. Then I started packing in earnest. The outfit I had planned to wear to my aunt’s birthday didn’t work at all so I switched to something different. In the and I did manage to cram everything into the backpack but just barely.

I also got the new keyboard case for my iPad that I had ordered. I had hoped to take it on the trip. The one I’m using now is not only looking rather shabby, it also keeps telling me that it couldn’t connect and often I have to jiggle the connection between the tablet and the keyboard to use it.

But. The new case was at least twice as heavy, rather bulky and while the keyboard was detachable it was so detachable that it just fell out of the case. I did like the extra slot for the Apple Pencil, one of the irritating things about the old case is that the Pencil falls off a lot.

After trying the new case out for about half an hour, charging it completely and testing if it fits into the pouch I have for the iPad I decided to return it. I do not want to carry something that is as heavy and unwieldy as a laptop.

By then it was already dinnertime. I had started the dough for the Hefezopf around 4 and then I spent 2 1/2 hours packing and doing such fun things as looking for the USB hub that goes with the tablet for twenty minutes. I also charged all my electronics, folded the rest of the laundry and put all the clothes on the chairdrobe away. Which meant that I found not one but two pair of black leggings that I had been looking for for a while.

I formed the Zopf while talking with the boy again, put it in the oven, took a shower and cut my toenails, decided to leave the dirty dishes as is and to write a note that there were even more dirty dishes in the living room, started writing this post, watched a bit of C-drama while crocheting and went to bed.

Today will be spent on trains from 9.30 until 6. I’m exhausted just thinking about it. But things should be fine.

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