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Worked all day but don’t have much to show for it

December 31, 2023 by Susanne Leave a Comment

I mean, the day started very well, I had gotten enough sleep and written morning pages and meditated, I had more energy and was pretty pumped up about the upcoming year and finally getting stuff done. I was a little late so I had skipped yoga (again) but that meant I was finished with breakfast early, so all was good and I set out to weave in all the ends. (She did not weave in all the ends.) The mail person rang the doorbell because they had a package that did not fit into the mailbox and that was a lovely surprise:

picture of a brown wooden table with some colorful yarn ends, a handthrown mug and the Anti-Planner by Dani Donovan

The Anti-Planner is gorgeous and pretty hefty and looks very fun, I’m loving it already.

Determined to get some stuff done I set out to do my daily round around the internet, ahem, and then opened the manuscript and did some revising. Then onto the dishes while listening to a video, then my husband came back from running. I schlepped all the recycling outside and crammed it into the trash cans, printed something out for my mother-in-law, hung the laundry up that my husband had washed, ate lunch, took a break and was pretty sure I’d get a substantial portion of my to-do list done.

Oh, I almost forgot to show you lunch:

a plate of kidney beans, veggies, rice and ground beef. with a glass of water on te side

Around 3.30 the boy showed up and then my husband because we had agreed that we would take care of the clogged bathroom sink. But first we tried finding our plumber’s snake again but we couldn’t. Both of us looked everywhere but no luck. So I pulled out my bike and went to the hardware store.

Came back with two of those snakes in different sizes and some nasty chemical thing for the unclogging. My husband tried getting the snake into the pipe but nope. It went about 20 centimeters in and that was it. So we put everything back together and started chemical warfare. Because I’m cautious and always worried about the old pipes in this house we started with baking soda and vinegar. And hot water. And again. And again. And again.

Meanwhile frustration was rising and we started yelling at each other and slamming doors which is always great.

While I had been away my husband had also done the lunch dishes (very laudable) and unscrewed the old toilet seat so we could finally mount the new one that I had bought in 2019, ahem, and he cleaned the whole disgusting toilet. All of this was rather nice but it meant that now the whole bathroom was in shambles instead of just the sink.

By then frustration was high and we were starting to get hungry. I figured out how to mount the toilet seat, found that the screw anchors didn’t fit through the holes in the toilet, we tried squeezing them in anyway, constantly getting into each other’s way because each of us was convinced he had found a solution. We did not find a solution, they just didn’t fit. Fortunately there was another way of anchoring the seat. So I started putting everything together just to find that – the screws were too short for our toilet. Fortunately we are the proud owners of an extensive screw collection in the basement and since my husband spent some weeks sorting them all he often actually finds what he needs. After two tries we found screws that are long enough. And it only took me four tries to mount everything properly, including one where I managed to sink one of the metal caps into the toilet and then had to fish it out again through the hydrochloric acid my husband had put in to remove urine scale.

In the meantime I kept trying to declog the sink and it did start to clear up a little faster but not much faster.

Then we finally got to eat dinner but had almost run out of bread. I think what happened was that there had been enough bread for everything the night before, then the boy ate lots during the night, my husband took some for his breakfast and after that he was very surprised that there wasn’t enough bread left for all of us for dinner. He and I shared the last bit of it and had a boiled egg each and the plan was that the boy ate leftover spaetzle and red cabbage. Only – the spaetzle had gone bad already. So he got to eat leftovers from lunch.

After all of that I still had to decalcify the electric kettle and change the BRITA filter all while pouring more boiling water down the clogged drain. I finally took a shower, the boy took a shower as well, I started writing this post, finally got the boy to try on his new pajamas, found out that the pajamas were too small (no surprise here, I had told him to order a bigger size from the start), took about ten minutes to figure out how to do the return and why the order wasn’t in my account with the shop where I had ordered (the reason was that I had gone directly to PayPal without logging in, duh), started the return process and ordered two pairs of larger pajamas (and paid for them) and by then it was already my bedtime and I still hadn’t done the dishes. Also couldn’t do the dishes at that point because the boy was taking a shower. More fun for today, then.

I watched some C-drama and knitted a bit anyway.

Today there will be all the dishes, some more laundry, the weekly phone call to my mother, Chinese, some nice food for New Year’s, some champagne and the endless waiting for midnight, I guess.

Filed Under: daily journal, life

And – extra tired again

December 30, 2023 by Susanne Leave a Comment

So, Thursday had me bike to the supermarket, buy all the groceries, come back, notice that the washbasin in the bathroom in the old part of the house is slow draining, unpack groceries and eat lunch:

a dark table filled with plate, bowls and glasses, two plates with lasagna, and several bowls of mixed salad, a bit glass of wine in the middle

I took a break after that until it was almost too late to do the dishes before my lone student of the week, remembered the washbasin, started declogging, failed completely, took half the washbasin apart and managed to cover the bathroom in filth. I did manage to extract the usual fat and hairballs, put everything back together and ended with a sink that was still not draining plus dribbling water everywhere underneath which was a bit unfortunate with the cupboard underneath and my pajamas sitting on top of that.

I had to give up.

My student arrived at the same time as my husband’s friends, we said a quick hello, then I gave a singing lesson, we all sat down to eat more lasagna at some point, I watched C-drama and crocheted and then I couldn’t get going. Mind you, I still hadn’t done the dishes. Around 11.30 my husband showed up again. In between I had heard them making music in the basement. We needed to move mattresses around and make beds for both of them. I scrambled to find sheets and make beds, then finally did the dishes, talked with the boy somewhere in between and then was too tired to get ready for bed. Also, no washbasin so I had to brush my teeth at the kitchen sink. I turned the lights out at 1.30.

Set my alarm for 7.30, wrote morning pages, skipped yoga and meditation again, ate breakfast with my husband, then the first guest showed up and basically didn’t move from the kitchen table for the next few hours. We waited for the second guest to get up but he took his time.

I order to get some time to myself I went out and picked up yogurt and some other things. There was another lunch:

a plate of bratwurst, green beans and potatoes, a glass of water on the side

More sitting around, more waiting, more conversations, more dishes. Ate the rest of the lasagna for dinner, tried to make myself prepare for my coaching session at 8 but felt sluggish. Then our guests left, I moved over to my studio, pulled out a couple of notebooks and thought about what I wanted to talk about.

Coaching was wonderful and very nice, then I started to write this post, finally did Duolingo, watched a bit of C-drama and went to bed.

So, now I’m left with the urge to do everything at once today, clean the house, do about five loads of laundry, open the manuscript and repair the washbasin drain. I’m sure this will be fun.

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Everything‘s fine, I‘m just busy

December 29, 2023 by Susanne Leave a Comment

I thought I could check in this morning but our overnight guests are still here. I got less than six hours of sleep so this will be fun.

Have a great day, I‘ll be back tomorrow!

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And another day that went poof!

December 28, 2023 by Susanne Leave a Comment

I woke up before the alarm and felt great. Then I pulled out my phone and dived into online content right away. No morning routine. No exercise, no revision and not much else.

I did walk to the health food store which meant first time out of the house since Friday. I thought a lot about enthusiasm and the new year, goals, plans and the year behind. My husband made pasta e fagioli which was delicious. There’s a reason that’s one of our most favorite meals:

a dark brown table with a plate of pasta e fagioli, a glass of water and some parmesan in a yellow container

Oh, and since my husband is still coughing a lot we did another covid test each:

 

picture of a negative covid test on a table

I’m also planning to do another one tomorrow or Friday because we met so many people on Monday.

After lunch I started another round of sitting and waiting. First, I took a break, which was nice. Then I thought about asking my husband if he had taken his shower yet while reading a chat online. Then time passed, apparently, every time I thought about getting up and doing something my husband showed up to talk to me which meant I was sitting a little longer. Eventually I actually did the lunch dishes. I took the old 2010 laptop that my husband had brought me at breakfast saying that had gotten loud and hot some time and that he had been worried the laptop would start burning so he put it outside in the cold. I think my husband thought that unplugging the laptop meant it was turned off but I don’t know.

When I tried turning it on it did nothing but when I plugged it back in later it started, everything was fine. It might have been overheating because there was stuff piled on top of it while it was on stand-by. Note to self: turn that laptop off even if it takes ages to power up. And then I remembered that I had turned it on at some point to look for older pictures of my father because we had been trying to find a nice one. When I transferred to a new computer I only took some of the pictures with me because the new computer only had half the disk space.

I was just about to finally take a shower when my husband showed up and made himself dinner so I ate dinner as well, started writing this post, read a bit more of „How Writers fail“ by Kristine Kathryn Rusch, eventually took the shower I had been dreading for days, watched some C-drama, did Duolingo and went to bed.

Today and tomorrow will be, um, interesting, my husband’s friends will show up later today for making music. They’ll stay overnight and that will throw me off for the rest of the year, probably. And then we’ll have more house guests next week. Fun times!

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Venison and revision

December 27, 2023 by Susanne Leave a Comment

Since I went to bed around 10 the night before I got to sleep for 8 1/2 hours. I’m not sure but I might not have woken up at all.

And what did my sleep app have to say in the morning? My readiness was – rest.

And’s that’s how I felt all day. I did do my whole morning routine, at least, opened the manuscript for once, did the huge pile of dishes from the day before that had mysteriously multiplied overnight (seems the boy finally returned his dirty dishes) and then we did another big cooking session. It took a while, including starting the wood stove, putting the roast in the oven, cooking the red cabbage for a few hours and making the spaetzle from scratch. I am very grateful for the leather apron because standing in front of the stove making the noodles gets hot. Afterwards my right forearm was completely red and splotchy. Fortunately that went away eventually. And here’s the meal:

a cluttered table with a plate of spaetzle and red cabbage, a glass of red wine, the wine bottle, a serving dish holding venison and sauce and a candle in the back

I couldn’t decide which picture to use, so here’s the second one:
another picture of the same table, this time there is venison and lingonberry jam on the plate in addition to the spaetzle and red cabbage, same glass of red wine

I took a break, did the dishes and then my husband started cooking again. He is expecting friends for a music session at some point this week and decided to prepare lasagna. So he cooked both sauces yesterday afternoon. He ran out of butter halfway through but my mother-in-law still had three unopened packages and let us borrow one.

Meanwhile I tried opening the manuscript again but failed, also did not do any exercise. I did fold half a load of laundry, though, and am happy to report that the drying rack in my studio is gone. For now.

Then I hung around reading stuff online, ate dinner, talked with my husband who had gotten a message that his friends would be coming on Friday, started writing this post, did Duolingo, still didn’t take a shower, watched something on TV while crocheting and went to bed.

Today finally the shops will be open again and I’ll hit at least the health food store.

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And Christmas Day is always a weird in between time

December 26, 2023 by Susanne Leave a Comment

I went to bed a little too late and didn’t sleep all that well. No morning routine at all and I also did not do any exercise. I did eat all the things, though.

I finished lengthening the sleeves of my husband’s new sweater. Now it does fit better than before but for some reason all the woven-in ends keep creeping to the outside. And then I started another pair of Kærlig mittens for my husband. I’m using the leftover yarn from the ones I made for my mother. I spent quite a bit of time doing all the dishes from the day before.

We had leftover food from Christmas dinner for lunch:a plate of Sileasian bratwurst, mashed potatoes and sauerkraut with a glass of water on the side

I read and thought about the last week and made plans for the current one. My brother-in-law’s family was upstairs at my mother-in-law’s place and so we went up in the afternoon to say hello. I came back downstairs and ate more poppy seed cake. Met the boy for the first time that day and agreed to watch the second half of the Muppet Christmas movie that night.

Talked with my husband about the week ahead as well. Today we’re planning to make venison, red cabbage and spaetzle. Friends of his will come over at some point this week, either for one day or two and they also might stay overnight. They want to make music. I’d love to play as well but not with my voice being shot. We might make lasagna, we might make frozen pizza or possibly both. Not on the same day, mind you.

There were more dishes, some Duolingo, watching TV while knitting and not much more. I had planned to take a shower and exercise but didn’t. I am really hoping today will go better, I’d like to make better use of my time. I’m still rather exhausted in general but I’m not sure sitting around eating and reading is really the best course of action. Well, we’ll see.

Filed Under: daily journal, life

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